11 Comments
User's avatar
Renli Reynolds's avatar

I am single for the 2nd time after my divorce in 2018. I, too, have LOTS to write, feel, process even this far out from the marriage and two subsequent failed long-term relationships. Thank you for your honesty and for always being so fucking real and raw. xoxoxo

Expand full comment
cara alwill's avatar

♥️♥️♥️

Expand full comment
Lisa's avatar

Thank you so much for writing this! I’m turning 40 this year and I’ve been totally freaked out by it to be honest! Your words really make me feel better and help me get excited for this new decade. ☺️

Expand full comment
cara alwill's avatar

It is truly such a special decade! Happy 40th!! <3

Expand full comment
Sonia Bavistock's avatar

Happy Birthday gorgeous, glorious woman! Hope you have the most fabulous time celebrating and being celebrated. I'm turning 40 this year and I am so fucking excited for it! What a decade to be entering... I'm ready for it. Toasting to you and forty-fucking-fabulous-four! PS: poetry? Yes please! x

Expand full comment
cara alwill's avatar

Thank you so much! You are going to LOVE 40! xoxox

Expand full comment
Molly's avatar

Happy birthday!! So many great takeaways here! Thank you for sharing your gift with the world 💖

Expand full comment
cara alwill's avatar

Thank you so much for being here! <3

Expand full comment
E.M. Gallagher's avatar

Love this. Love you. I needed this today (and I also need a disco ball) 🖤💫

Expand full comment
cara alwill's avatar

love you too! (and yes you do!) xo

Expand full comment
Charlotte Andrews's avatar

I love this so much. I feel that women just get more powerful as we get older, so long as the patriarchy doesn't convince us to give that power away. A woman in her truth just gets more self-possessed, more wise, more magnetic. Always love reading your posts! Keep them coming! <3

Expand full comment