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Lisa M. Bray's avatar

"Men don’t move on and find someone better, they find someone easier." Case and point of my recent break up!!!!!! Thank you for writing this!!! I just kept saying "yes, yes, yes!!" I feel so seen.

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cara alwill's avatar

<333

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Sharon Gilman's avatar

I fucking haaaate how we fake orgasms! Why the fuck do we DO that shit?! I haven’t slept with anyone since last summer and I absolutely refuse to sleep with anyone mediocre ever again. And I refuse to everrrrr fake another orgasm.

Happy fucking Friday Cara!! This whole blog was the exact message we all needed today 🤍🤍

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cara alwill's avatar

No more faking ANYTHING! Happy fucking Friday!!

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Nycole ✨'s avatar

Cheers to all of the inconvenient women of the world!

May your standards and boundaries take you further than shrinking yourself ever could. 🥂

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cara alwill's avatar

Amen to that!

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Katie Lipp's avatar

This is so relatable:

"Speak up and risk losing a piece of him even though I never had all of him?

Speak up and risk making him uncomfortable?

Speak up and risk being…alone?

I was afraid of all of this until I decided I was more afraid of remaining chained to a life of passive devotion. Once I became inconvenient, I realized my solitude was not a punishment, it was a gift. Once I became inconvenient, I unleashed a beast. Once I became inconvenient, I found my way back to myself."

I'm glad you spoke up, Cara.

It's healing all of us. 💖

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cara alwill's avatar

Thanks Katie. And thank you for being here! <3

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Lauren Walsh's avatar

Happy fucking Friday ! AMEN to all of this ❤️‍🔥

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cara alwill's avatar

Woohooooo!! <3

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HLR's avatar

'Fuck yes' to all of this 💖

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Terra Incógnita's avatar

"Welcome, to the woman who asks for exactly what she wants. Who doesn’t settle for half efforts. Who doesn’t believe half truths.

Welcome, to the woman who lets the world know when she is hungry. Who lets you know when she’s had enough.

Welcome, to the woman who is inconvenient."

This could be in a billboard!!!!!

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cara alwill's avatar

thank you!!! <3 so happy you enjoyed it!

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Karla Fajardo's avatar

“Speak up and risk being…alone?” Worst thing is we are already alone while with them. 🥺

This blog post really hit home. Thank you for putting my feelings into words. 💖

Time to inconvenience the fuuuuuuuck out of all of them. 😎💃🏻

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cara alwill's avatar

yepppp <33

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Charlotte Stephens's avatar

Here's to all of the inconvenient women, may we continue to piss off men the world over

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cara alwill's avatar

Cheers to that!

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mimi's avatar

This spoke to me on so many levels & it was exactly what I needed to hear today. Saved for later - thank you ✨

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cara alwill's avatar

Thank you for reading! <3

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Jade Ritchie's avatar

Amazing Cara!

As women, we naturally want to make things easier for others but can sometimes forget we are important too! 👏

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Birgit Putteman's avatar

Welcome to the woman who loves herself so deeply she is only being herself 💕💕

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Alex's avatar

All I want to be is INCONVENIENT AF! (Can we get inconvenient merch asap)💖💖💖

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cara alwill's avatar

I’m one step ahead of ya girlfriend <3

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Alex's avatar

I can’t wait!💖

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L I L Y ✦ G G's avatar

Dare to say, this is one of the best pieces you wrote so far 🐆🐆🐆🔥🔥🔥

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cara alwill's avatar

Thank you Lily! 💓💓💓

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Tanya Tecce's avatar

Amen amen!!!

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Neva Knott's avatar

This is IT!!!! So true that it brought tears to my eyes.

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cara alwill's avatar

❤️

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